Rejection

Have you ever feel you are different from others in the group? Or you feel you are the weirdo compare to another compare to others in your circle? Have you ever feel, you are overwhelmed with one condition? You wanted to scream out loud because people are simply exclude you from the talk? How did it make you feel? So terrible right? I used to have this unpleasant memory. When I was younger I was too afraid telling my opinion to others because I was afraid being labelled as weird in my own class.

Ever since I have this privilege as to be one of the introvert person, I choose to follow every decision or opinion of my famous friend. I did that hoping I will get the validation. I am afraid being rejected and I am craving for the secure feeling. I grew up with the mindset, follow the flow and just remain silence. Everything will be alright. Time passed by, since I am afraid of rejection, I started to stop loving myself and even forgot to feed the need of my emotion. I was screwed. Too many anxiety  I keep in my mind. Living in somebody else shadow was so terrible. Until the very day I realized, rejection isn’t always bad. They rejected me because they have their point, they rejected me because I was not meant to be in their circle. By having this slowly, that you are not going to fit in everybody’s circle and so do they.

I starting to be at ease, when people exclude me from their conversation. It is just the way it is. No more begging for validation.

Here are some ways,  to deal with rejection:

1.     Knowing our worth

2.     Accepting that not everything we desired are meant to ours.

3.     Grateful of your life

4.     Enjoying life.

I hope this will be can be useful. Doesn’t matter what kind of rejection you are facing, remember life is good. 😊